Design Electrical Controller by IR

I need an electronic design for the following. I have a mains 230v supply operating a load of up to 2 Kwatts. I need to switch this supply to this load On /Off via IR at distances of up to 5 metres using an RX in the device I need the unit to sense the current drawn and when there is either no current drawn or this current drops below say 40 milliamps to switch off the power supply to the load. An additional circuit with a small dc voltage supply will be required to power the IR device when the 230V supply is switched off and to have the ability, to reconnect the power supply to the load on activation by the IR TX. Preferably, the provider would be able to supply and build a proto-type unit. The cost of the proto-type unit is not included in this project and will be negotiated separately. If you need further details PM Please.