27874 Advice Column for Dating site

I have a dating site. I would like to be able to have an Advice Column, where members can post questions of the opposite sex. There should be a section for gay Members as well. If a man posts a question for women to answer, then it should only allow female members to answer the question, and vice versa. I have included a copy of the dating script for you to review. It is based in ASP and Microsoft Access.